How to Be a Successful Muslim Wife

In Islam, marriage is a blessed contract between a man and a woman. Each have their own role to play in making a marriage successful. It is a bit more difficult but certainly possible to make even a selected partner in a marriage a success 

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   Be the best wife you can be. Being a good Muslim wife is in many ways similar to being a good wife in other religions. Sure it has its own special features and requirements, just like any other religion. However, there are common basic methods and guidelines for being a good wife in general. Follow them.
   

   

1. Pray regularly. Always ask Allah for forgiveness and blessings on your marriage.
   

   

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   Understand and respect your husband's rights. Study authentic haadith and make sure that you understand your obligations as a wife as well as understand your rights. In Islam, a good wife is expected to be honest, sincere and cognizant of her husband's needs. At the same time her husband must respect her, fulfill her needs and even help her in household chores.
   

   
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   Be secure in yourself. Putting yourself down in front of him is another way of insulting his taste in women. If he is with you, it's because he wants to be. He will find you attractive even if you don't feel like it. Remember that attitude and willingness are large parts of being approachable and attractive. Poor self-esteem and a "void" in your life is terrible for marriage. Make sure you still have a fun and interesting life. If your husband left tomorrow, would you still have girlfriends you see at least once a month, hobby clubs you go to, sports you play? If not, your husband will always be working to fill a void he can't, and will feel inadequate and unhappy.
   

   
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   Express, don't accuse. Except in the rare event that your husband happens to be psychic, don't expect mind-reading powers. If you want something, ask. If something is wrong, say so. Don't drop hints or figure he'll "come around".Communicate calmly, clearly and directly. Relationships work best when each partner calmly express their current emotion without harping on what he has done. Frequently, a "I feel attacked" or "I feel sad" is all it takes for him to step back and ask, "Why?" Then simply say, "When you slammed the door, I felt ignored." Let "I feel" be your guide.
   

   
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   Don't expect the moon. He needs to keep trying, you need to keep trying, but neither of you is perfect. Unmet expectations tend to frustrate everyone. However, if you both keep working on your marriage, you will always be covered, even when one of you comes up a little short. If your expectations are truly too high or unrealistic, then set standards that are obtainable. For example, it is unfair to expect to be lavished with possessions and have the love of your life home for every meal. Should you want more together time, be prepared to have that desire fulfilled at some expense.
   

   
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   Pick your battles. Nagging and nitpicking can destroy a relationship. As long as the dishes are clean and unbroken, for instance, don't nag about how to load the dishwasher "the right way". Let him do things his own way.Don't complain over petty issues try to solve yourself, Don't sweat the small stuff. Focus on what is important.At last thanks Allah for whatever you have.
   

   
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   Accept him. Only by accepting him as he is, do you have such deep respect and gratitude for him that you would never want him to change in any way for you. He has so much to offer you if only you give him the space to be himself. He is a growing individual, just like you are. Help him grow in the direction that he chooses, and give him the chance to help you.
   

   
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   Dress pleasantly/attractively.If you are a home-maker,don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day.Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female.
   

   
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   Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him. Smile, hug and kiss him.
   

   
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    Stay with him during hard time. He will need his wife to listen to him, comfort him and give him the strength. Don't be selfish.

    

Puisi tentang seseorang Dari Dian Sastrowordoyo

Ku lari ke hutan kemudian menyanyiku.

Ku lari ke pantai kemudian teriakku.

Sepi... sepi dan sendiri aku benci.

Ingin hingar aku mau di pasar.

Bosan aku dengan penat.

Nyah saja kau pekat.

Seperti berjelaga jika ku sendiri....

Pecahkan saja gelasnya;

Biar ramai,

Biar mengaduh sampai gaduh.

Ada malaikat menyulam jaring labah-labah belang di tembok keraton putih...

Kenapa tidak kau goyangkan saja locengnya;

biar terdera...

Atau aku harus lari kehutan,

Belok ke pantai..?

Bosan aku dengan penat.

Nyah saja kau pekat.

Seperti berjelaga jika ku sendiri

Bilik Sewa

Salam n selamat malam, sambil hidung soksek2 kepala berat demam mcm nk dtg kembali... Tgn still nk dancing2 type blog. Mlm ni jj nk Share for those y mencari bilik Sewa / Rumah Sewa boleh contac this person. Jj dh usha dh mmg puas hati kalau Sewa kat sini. WHY???

1- Rumah baru! Virgin lagi diknon! Soo sapa y masuk Kira 1st la rasmi. Best Kan!
2- Wet and Dry kitchen Build in cabinet.  Kemas dan cantik.
3- Aircond
4- Classic English Style bed frame
5- High quality matress
6- washing machine
7- Refrigerator
8- Cooking stove
9- sofa
10- Dining Table

Condo Facilities ( New unit) *5star lifestyle condo facilities
1- Barbicue Area
2- club House
3- badminton & basketball court
4- Gym
5- jacuzzi
6- jogging track
7- nursery
8- playground
9- swimming pool
10- wading pool
11- 24hr security

nak type panjang mata dh berat esok sambung lah.

Ed Sheeran - Thinking Out Loud [Official Video] Lyric

Ed Sheeran - Thinking Out Loud [Official Video] 

 Salam semua, act jj rasa teruja nk update new FAV song jj skarang. Now Top 1 dlm hati jj. So sweet last nite someone special jj send me this special song. Catchy :) 

Soo dalam kepala mula la berangan2 dah on my wedding lagu ni jd Opening time jalan nak ke Pelamin! Gituwww!!! Berangan xpe kan. Hahaha...Tq sbb bagi special song nie. Luvit!

Thinking Out Loud

When your legs don't work like they used to before
And I can't sweep you off of your feet
Will your mouth still remember the taste of my love?
Will your eyes still smile from your cheeks?
And, darling, I will be loving you 'til we're 70
And, baby, my heart could still fall as hard at 23
And I'm thinking 'bout how people fall in love in mysterious ways
Maybe just the touch of a hand
Well, me—I fall in love with you every single day
And I just wanna tell you I am
So honey now
Take me into your loving arms
Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars
Place your head on my beating heart
I'm thinking out loud
That maybe we found love right where we are
When my hair's all but gone and my memory fades
And the crowds don't remember my name
When my hands don't play the strings the same way
I know you will still love me the same
'Cause honey your soul could never grow old, it's evergreen
And, baby, your smile's forever in my mind and memory
I'm thinking 'bout how people fall in love in mysterious ways
Maybe it's all part of a plan
Well, I'll just keep on making the same mistakes
Hoping that you'll understand
But, baby, now
Take me into your loving arms
Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars
Place your head on my beating heart
Thinking out loud
That maybe we found love right where we are
So, baby, now
Take me into your loving arms
Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars
Oh, darling, place your head on my beating heart
I'm thinking out loud
That maybe we found love right where we are
Oh, baby, we found love right where we are
And we found love right where we are

Hari ke2 The Regency Jerai Hill Resort

Assalamualaikum

Hari n jj nak update hari ke 2 kat sini. Masih lagi gila bunga bila keluar dari bilik. Hahaha mau tak nya bunga kepok2 gebu2 kan. Soo hari ke dua masih lagi Berbengkel pagi konon kata nak joging..ahaha tp hancus...

Alahai jj baru nk up gambar.. x dpt nk upload la pulak. Soo citanya kiv dlu la kisah Jerai Hill ni....

To Be Continue......

The Regency Jerai Hill Resort, Gunung Jerai, Kedah Darul Aman.

Assalamualaikum

Malam ni Jj nak update pasal The Regency Jerai Hill Resort, Gunung Jerai, Kedah Darul Aman. Kenapa tiba-tiba pulak nak update pasal ni? Al-kisahnya, Last minue Jj di arahkan oleh pegawai untuk ganti attend Bengkel Hala Tuju 2015. Mula-mula jj mmg nk ngelak dari datang bengkel ni, tapi tu la yg dikatakan Jodoh. Hahahaha.... Ok dh melalut dah......tett!!!!

Soo pagi ni datang office mcm biasa around 11.00am kami bertolak naik bas USM. ok sep...and jimat tenaga xpayah drive sendiri. Jj sebelum ni penah dengar Gunung Jerai tp idak la pulak amik kesah pun. Tiba2 hati ni rasa nk google tgk mcm mana rupa tempat bengkel yg nk kena p nih.. Dushhhh!!! mcm kena letrik gila lawa tempat nih! hahahaha soo dlm hati hope bukan indah khabar dari rupa.

Pejam celik pejam celik sampai di Gurun Bas stop kat stesen minyak. Turun2 ja bas makkkk aihhhhh!!! bau ikan bakar dia mmg mcm kaki ni kena tarik ke sana. Hahahaha bau pun dh ngancam mesti rasa dia best! Soo bos kata singgah makan dlu. Tgk ikan mcm2 sdp sungguh, tp entah kenapa jj amik ikan keli jugak. Soo far sdp jugak ikan bakar kat sini. no wonder la ramai yang makan kat sini. Soo apa nama kedai makan ni? KAK CHAQ IKAN BAKAR. 

Ni la gerai Ikan Bakar tu. Penuh orang sentiasa.Harga not bad la

Soo lepas makan kami meneruskan perjalanan sampai la ke Gunung Jerai ni. Tempat nampak tenang.Bas stop kat bawah ni ja then van resort yang akan ambil kami naik ke resort. 

tempat kami berkumpul sementara tunggu van resort datang.

Alamak blur gambar ni sbb kami dok dalam van pack gila.haha

Sampainya kat puncak dah nampak kabus2 and udara pun natural fresh!!! Lagi best dari Cameron kalau dr segi weather. Dari segi entertainment still best d Cameron sbb ada byk tempat and aktiviti yg kita boleh buat. Kat sini yang nk mencari ketenangan mmg sesuai sgt dtg. 

Yang paling jj happy is bila tengok hydrangea berkepok-kepok ok! geram sgt! fresh and rasa mcm kat overseas! ahaha... bayangkan kalau p melbourne tgk tulips!!!! OMG melting kan. 

Fresh sgt! tenang ja kat sini. Masalah semua boleh lupa la sekejap bila ada kat sini. 

ni jj x sure pulak bunga apa. tp ttp cantik and fresh.

ni pulak cafe..Nice cafe dia ada 2 section indoor dgn outdoor. nyaman sih makan kat sini..dr xlalu makan boleh tambah 3 pinggan! hahaha

sorry la sesangat, camera jj crack! mmg stres ja tgk 2 line melintang baekkkkkk ja kan!  ni main entrance. 

bilk resort jj

Iftar di Italiannies CURVE, Damansara 2013 dan kejadian tak diduga

Salam alkisahnya jj just teringat nk share iftar di italiannies Curve Damansara. Why nk throwbekk pulak? Cita nya sbb jj out dinner ngan member jj di italiannies Gurney Paragon Penang. Tapi punya mencari menu y Penah makan sblm ni xde. Soo sbb nk bagi ingat tu jj nk repost balik post tahun lepas ni. Sng cket jj nk flashback tinggal checked blog ja. Haha..

Bukan KL la kalau jalan tak sesak

 #Beverage #Drink #Grape #lyche #italianies

#SeafoodResotto #Italiannies 

 Full Picture #SeafoodResotto #Italiannies 

#PrawnSalad #Italinnies

Alhamdulillah kenyang dan bersyukur atas Rezeki yang engkau berikan. 

Done  program sepatutnya jj jumpa sorang member IG ni nak beli something kat dia, 

Dalam perjalanan balik dari tempat jj sesat tu dekat BTS, Bandar Tasik Selatan around jam 1-2 pagi macam tu lah, jj terus gerak balik naik Haiway menghala ke Ipoh. Otw nak balik tu dalam keadaaan sunyi sbb stress sesat larat tadi just nk pergi beli something dekat member IG, dengan kelajuan standard 110km/j jj nampak benda putih kat tengah-tengah jalan haiway Sungai Buloh berhampiran Rawang. 

Ingatkan plastik apa ka, dalam keadaan yang pantas Dushhh!!!! keta jj kena objek putih tu dengan bunyi yang kuat masuk bawah kereta.jj dgn Member suspen dah terus berhenti kereta kat tepi jalan. Kereta BMW depan jj & kereta belakang jj pun banyak yang berhenti sebab langgar objek kat tengah jalan tu. 

 BMW ni langgar tayar lori dekat tengah-tengah jalan. Malam memang tak perasan la sebab gelap.

Rupa-rupanya benda putih yang jj langgar tu Bumper BMW ni. 

Then lepas check kereta samada ada bocor atau tak jj dengan beberapa buah kereta terus ke Tol yang berhapiran, Tol Rawang untuk buat aduan. 

 Petugas Tol Checking Kereta yang rosak dan ambil gambar sebagai bukti untuk dikepilkan dalam borang aduan. 

Alhamdulillah, Mujor la tak banyak yang rosak. Cuma Bumper depan pecah dengan skirting tepi. Secara Luaran mata kasar ni sahaja yang rosak jj nampak malam kejadian.

Lepas semua nya selesai alang-alang jj, member dan pemandu yang excident tadi bersahur sama2 dekat kedai makan di Rawang yang berhampiran. Sebelum tu sempat lagi jual 2 kotak Mineral Coffee dekat 2 orang brader yang ada di tempat kejadian. Sebab selalu travel jauh mengantok soo bagus minum mineral coffee tu. Kalau nak nanti jj bagi entry pasal KOPI tu ok. 

Berbalik pada cerita tadi, jj pun meneruskan perjalanan ke Kampar, tapi memang menduga la banyak kali berhenti sbb kereta ada bunyi-bunyi bila bawa laju cket, takde la laju mana pun tapi maybe bunyi skirting yang pecah tu, So jj sampai IPD Kampar around jam 8.00am untuk buat police report . bayangkan lah punya la letih sampai depan polis pun jj degan member tertidur. Hahahaha uncontrol uolss.. Selesai terus jj balik rumah member Tidur and rehat. 

3 Ogos 2013

Hari yang sangat meletihkan buat jj, cadangnya sabtu nak balik ke Utara. tapi disebabkan terlampaunya lah letih soo jj berbuka dengan member & hubby dia dekat Kampar. Dup Dap Dup Dap la jantung ni nak bagi tau dekat my mum bukan apa semalam jj tak bagi tau sebab takut my mum risau tak boleh tidur pulak. Soo after iftar jj bagi tau. Macam biasa lah mak mana tak sayang anak oiii??? Mak yang tadak hati dan akal fikiran sahaja yang buang-buangkan anak. Fuhh very-very sensetipp about this! 

4 OGOS 2013

Jj nak bertolak balik dari Kampar  ke Perak. Sebelum balik tengah siok-siok drive nak balik tak sabar nak jumpa my mum iftar sama-sama BAMB!!!!! kejadian yang di luar jangkaan sakit jantung mak nakkk !!!! kereta sempottt!!!! OMG !!!! Dugaan posa2 nih Dugaan dalam hati dok kata.

disebabkan Pakar terlebih dalam bidang kereta nie terus we chat member minta tanya hubby dia comel apakah ini???

google punya google baru la tau warning ligh nie 

Engine warning light

The engine warning light on some vehicles may be red in colour and will illuminate when the ignition is turned on and should extinguish once the engine has started. If once the engine has started the engine warning light remains illuminated, it will suggest a problem with the engine. If the engine warning light begins flashing, ease off the accelerator and seek assistance immediately.

Hati jadi tak sedap bila bawa kereta semput-semput. Jj stop matikan enjin kejap then jalan balik warning light tu dah padam. Hati ni legaa la bila tgk dah takde warning light tu dengan harapan boleh drive balik dengan selamat. Tak keluar lagi dari Bandar Baru Kampar kereta semput-semput teruk nak mati enjin. Oh my nak nagis pun ada jugak sebab dah la pusing-pusing cari bengkel servis kereta susah kat kampar. Lagi pun Hari Ahad bengkel banyak tutup oiiii.... Bertawakal je lah time tu benti tanya Pak cik polis yang dok buat road block, jj ke Pekan Kampar cari takdak jugak yang buka, then lastly tanya budak-budak motor dekat kedai apa ntah diaorang cakap tengok dekat Tesco ada kedai-kedai kereta dekat situ. 

Syukur Alhamdulillah ada jugak Bengkel kereta yag bukak Ahad. Belakang Tesco Kampar, Ipoh. jj lupa nama bengkel nie. Time nih dalam hati kata lu nak katok gua berapa ratus pun lantak lah janji kereta aku boleh jalan and selamat sampai Parit Buntar! Hahahaha.. hati ni ingat nak balik ja oiii.....

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